I'd like to try something new.....

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Registered: 09-09-2008
I'd like to try something new.....
Tue, 10-20-2009 - 6:54pm

My DH has behaved quite well for two years now.


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Registered: 09-28-2008
Tue, 10-20-2009 - 7:18pm
She always has our one and only grandchild in mind. There is always a special treat or kindness from G'ma. Since he is our only grandkid (and there will be no more) this boy is the light of my life and my reason for living. So, her extra efforts on his behalf always make me swell with pride.
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Registered: 08-31-2009
Tue, 10-20-2009 - 9:23pm

what a sweet thought - i am sure it will help many.

sorry but i just can not participate since i can not think of a single thing.


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Registered: 10-09-2008
Tue, 10-20-2009 - 10:21pm

I really love the man my H is becoming, even more than the guy he was before.

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Wed, 10-21-2009 - 12:37pm

Just one thing? Cannot limit myself. Sorry.

I really love the way he takes care of me when I am sick. (I have been sick for about a week now)

I love that he is a gifted cook and that he loves to do it.

I love that he shares my passion for gardening.

I love that he plays the mandolin and actually enjoys my pathetic attempts to play along on my guitar..

I love that he works out, but isn't vain about the results (which I enjoy).

I love the way he looks at me.

I love that we can share ideas and bounce off one another.

I love they way he supports me in whatever crazy thing I decide to do.

OK, enough. I really love the guy. Yes, we are almost four years from Dday #1 and I feel safe with him. I think that is the thing I love best is that I feel safe with him and he has done the work so that I can feel safe.

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Registered: 09-16-2009
Wed, 10-21-2009 - 12:45pm

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Registered: 09-12-2008
Wed, 10-21-2009 - 12:55pm

My spouse is a very generous mother. She always attends their games and performances and works tirelessly at their homework. One of her greatest regrets during the affair was that her kids grades fell while she got straight As at school. Her selfishness sort of came to a crescendo at that moment and it became ever so clear to her that she was no longer a very good mom.

She's back to being a great mother. I'm very proud of her for this and I'm very lucky.


5 kids ages 16-10, D Day: August, 2008

What I'm doing to rebuild: Therapy, Books, Exercise, Forgiveness.


We have five kids. Our D-Day was in August, 2008.

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Registered: 11-16-2006
Wed, 10-21-2009 - 1:43pm
I love that he misses carpooling with me to and from work and then cooking together when we got home.
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Registered: 06-15-2009
Wed, 10-21-2009 - 2:05pm

I am having a hard time with this experiment.

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Registered: 08-11-2008
Thu, 10-22-2009 - 12:55pm

I like how my H would rather hang out with me rather than anything else;

I like how he takes care of the yard;

I love how he pampers me when I am sick. I had a really bad cold last week and he made me chicken soup and fed me medicine and even bathed me which was really romantic.

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Registered: 07-02-2008
Fri, 10-23-2009 - 2:09am

I love the fierce fatherly love and protection he shows to our young adult daughter and son. I love the way his eyes shine with pride at their accomplishments.

One of the reasons I decided to give him another chance at last was that I KNOW without a doubt that he is going to be the best grandpa on Earth when our son and his wife give us grandbabies. I cant wait for us to become grandparents together.