I'm in shock

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Registered: 09-16-2009
I'm in shock
Mon, 02-01-2010 - 10:34pm

The world is making no sense to me.

My H's OW is the Director of HR at the small company where he worked.

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Registered: 01-11-2010
Tue, 02-02-2010 - 1:22am
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Registered: 09-09-2008
Wed, 02-03-2010 - 4:29pm

OR that he has cheated on his wife with someone, that would explain him blowing YOU off with your pain.


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Registered: 10-09-2008
Thu, 02-04-2010 - 10:56pm


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Registered: 11-20-2001
Fri, 02-05-2010 - 11:12pm
You have to believe the Hor will get hers someday. The karma bus always shows up, it just make take some time and unfortunately, you may never know when she gets hit by it. One day, that sweet baby will be a teenager and may get cheated on by a boy/girlfriend. Hor will then see how horrible it is to watch someone they love be betrayed. Sometimes people don't see their own actions until it impacts someone they love. My STBX is a cheater, left me and my two small kids (baby was 7mths at the time and DS was not even 3) for his ho. We all worked together at a large company and after telling their boss (they were co-workers) and them being investigated, they got fired two days before Xmas. STBX's dad cheated on his mom and they divorced as well. His dad now has to reap seeing his son do the same thing to me and his grandkids. It must sting knowing that his son reaped what he sowed. Yeah, I am on the receiving end. My point is there will be a consequence someday. It just sucks having to wait.
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Registered: 06-06-2007
Sat, 02-06-2010 - 11:20pm


i'm so sorry this hell has to continue in your life.