Just want to scream!
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|Thu, 06-18-2009 - 1:41pm|
...or punch my H or his partner in the face!!!
We went to our first MC appointment on Tuesday, which seemingly went well. We go back next Tuesday. My H talked a lot more than I did the other day...I think I'll take next week as my turn.
We were talking earlier, not fighting, just regular how's your day going type of stuff. But he's at work, so of course he's talking to her too. He "pretended" to whistle at her when she was walking back to the ambulance from going in the bank, which of course irritated me, because I don't find it amusing at all. So for some reason, she thinks that she has the right to be pissed at me.
He said something about them going to pick up their supervisor and that I should be happy because then he wouldn't be by himself with her and they couldn't jump in the back of the ambulance together if their supervisor was there. And of course I was like "Umm...y'all shouldn't be doing that anyway." So he starts saying how they were back there together before they got their patient and I said "Well yeah, to do inventory, I know y'all have to do that." My a**hole H asked his partner "Were we back there doing inventory?" and she goes "No, I don't think that's what we were doing" and he says "Yeah, me niether." I hung up.
Then he texts me to say that she'll stop being a b*tch when I stop referring to her as his GF. I'm sorry, but if she's gonna say sh*t like that that sure as h*ll seems like she's his GF, I'm going to think she is, and I have every right to be a b*tch to her, while she has no right to be one to me.
The really immature parts of me want to either hit her or go tell her H some of the things my H said about her while he was drunk. Because I know her H is insecure about her being around my H, and it would cause problems between them if I said stuff to him.....but I know that's not the mature adult thing to do. Just part of me wants to show her how much of a b*tch I can be if she's going to be one to me.
Ok, there I vented...I"m still mad. So, anyone who's been through MC, should I talk to my H about this when he gets home, or should I wait until Tuesday and just bring it up at the appointment?