Just wanted to share

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Just wanted to share
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Wed, 04-12-2006 - 4:34pm

Things have been going well with H and I, I mean we have our moments but for the most part it's been great. Lately we've been doing crosswords together until we practically fall asleep, we've been going to NBA games, ice skating, going to movies, basically dating and spending quality time together. These are things he wouldn't do with me previously, it was a either watch tv together or never be in the same room together kind of thing.

I've been having trouble at work... issues with 2 girls and today things got worse w/no provocation from me (they've owed me $10 for 1mo for a march madness tournament and they refuse to pay). Today for some reason the whole office got riled up about it and the girls got angry. I IMed H to vent. He said "Things will be fine, forget about them, they aren't worth your time." After lunch the issue got resolved, though they are still very angry at me so I IMed him. Me "You were right and things got resolved. Thanks for letting me vent." H "I knew they would, you deserve good things! I love you. I love you. I love you and I want you to be successful. But mostly I just love you." WHAT?!? MY H said that? Since when did he talk to me like that! I was just so touched and surprised. He's been more kind and loving than ever, but this was just a big deal to me. All I could say was "I don't just love you, I adore you!" H "Excellent!"

Sorry so long. I just felt like after sharing the incredibly stupid things he's said in the past, that it would be nice to share the incredibly sweet things he's said in the present. I'm all a flutter. Lol Linds

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Wed, 04-12-2006 - 6:36pm

Glad to hear that things are going so well (

 BabyFruit Ticker

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Wed, 04-12-2006 - 7:49pm

Summer, thank you so much. You are great!

I'm sorry that you've had to go through all that you have and that you are now proceeding with a divorce, but I'm also really glad for you that you are moving on. I think you'll be great and I hope you realize what a wonderful person you are!

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Wed, 04-12-2006 - 9:27pm
It is so nice to hear positive comments! Sometimes I feel like I am swimming against the tide but then a post like yours gives me hope.
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Thu, 04-13-2006 - 9:01am
Glad to hear you so happy, Linds.

Luna

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Thu, 04-13-2006 - 9:28am
Thanks for the update lbutterfly!
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Thu, 04-13-2006 - 9:49am
Yeah linds!!! Or should I say good job Mr. Linds!;) hugs, Tea
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Thu, 04-13-2006 - 10:47am

Thanks for sharing the good news it is nice to read about the good stuff. This made me smile.

Enjoy the moment

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Thu, 04-13-2006 - 4:37pm

Awe Thanks everyone. I've said it before and I'll say it again, none of this would have been possible without the board. I just didn't have it in me on my own and even people IRL that had been through similar experiences weren't able to help me or talk with me like you all. I don't know what the future holds but no matter what happens, I'll have these memories.

For everyone going through their Ddays and aftermath right now, I just have to say that rebuilding CAN work if both people are willing to immense themselves in it, and on another note, if rebuilding is NOT an option, life does go on and things WILL get better. Because you are all wonderful vibrant women. I know it's easy for people to go through this and feel like there is no way out but no matter what you decide, YOU will be okay as long as you love and respect yourself.

Enought of that! ;) Linds

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Mon, 04-17-2006 - 11:33am

Linds, your post brought a smile to my face. I am soooooooo thrilled for you! Keep up the good work.

love,
bbalm

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Mon, 04-17-2006 - 12:43pm

Ha! Well, I'll practically do anything to get a smile on YOUR face! Don't you know that by now lol. (((HUGS))) You are always in my prayers, I hope you know.

Linds

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