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|Sat, 01-16-2010 - 7:34pm|
D-day was almost a month ago, but I was under the impression that OW had known that H was M when they first became involved. I swear I heard him say that the A started because he'd talked to her for a while about how our M was great except for the intimacy aspect, one thing led to another, and then she was happy to meet the needs that I wasn't. I just found out through casual conversation with H that it wasn't until after the A started, when he realized that she was starting to get emotionally involved that he disclosed that he was married.
H and I have talked about how angry this now makes me.
We've been making such great progress in the last month (communicating better than ever, being more affectionate and eagerly intimate than ever) that I'm scared of letting this be a setback.
We haven't yet sought out counseling, as our financial situation is currently prohibitive.