Moved home, yet still in contact
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|Mon, 01-30-2006 - 12:45pm|
H moved home on 12/9. He claimed he told OW he was ending it with her & that is why she tried to commit suicide in his apt on 12/5.
I have been checking his phone records and their really has not been any phone conversations. She was calling & leaving VM the first couple of weeks, but when she threatended suicide again & H didn't respond (or he says he didn't) she stopped calling. Maybe he just gave her another way to contact him?
I checked his Comcast account & found some correspondance from him to her. Nothing personal but it did say, 'Due to financial reasons I'm moving home.' Financial reasons? I thought he told her he was trying to work it out with me, why did he have to say that?
I told him I checked his account & he said I could look at his emails when ever I wanted. I never did again, but then one night I had a feeling I should check his Hotmail account. Lo & Behold there she is. But the msg was vague & could not tell if there had been contact from H or not. Again, I let him know I checked (no secrets on my side). He assured me he doesn't read her emails, just deletes them.
Then this weekend he had a few drinks & somehow let me know he was reading the emails. Said again I could check his emails whenever I wanted, I'm smart I can get into any of his accounts so it's hard for him to hide. He also told me he had not heard from her for at least 2w so she's finally given up.
This this morning I had a feeling to check his hotmail account again & found an email from Saturday (1/28/06)...
I haven't heard from you in a couple weeks. Are you okay or do you just
need to not talk to me right now? Just curious. You're still my best
friend...I think about these things a lot.
A COUPLE OF WEEKS!!!!
Has any other rebuilders had H continue contact after moving back home?