Much anger towards OW - HELP
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|Tue, 09-21-2010 - 11:23pm|
Lately I have SO much anger towards the OW, and am unsure how to channel it and get it out of my brain. I wonder how it is possible that a person who chooses to do such a horrific thing to another person, doesnt want to apologize!? My H says I should not waste energy on her, and should instead work on making our marriage stronger and work on rebuilding and healing US. But, I cannot get past what she did (him too, don't get me wrong). What was OK to her. That she felt no remorse. Going after a married man - gross. Plus, she is catholic! And quite religious!! How can that be, since she apparently agrees with only about half of the 10 commandments??
I really have the urge to talk to her and give her a piece of my mind, if not more, but have read it is not the right thing to do. Isn't staying away and being strong the classy thing to do? Is it my responsibility to teach her what being a good person involves? Is it my job to punish her? Or should I let fate and karma do that? Should I let it be known to everyone within a 100 mile radius what she has done, especially since I have learned that she had another A 8 years ago? I need to protect married women everywhere from her evil!! I guess she IS being punished in a way, since she got a D to be with my H who obviously didn't want her back....
Anyway, I welcome any advice that would help with the anger I feel towards mostly the OW, as well as my H.