NARCISSIST???

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Registered: 03-24-2009
NARCISSIST???
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Mon, 04-06-2009 - 9:28am
I ve been reading alot about Narcissism & my H fits the description to a T. Any others out there with a Narcissistic spouse??? How do you handle them? It seems like they are never happy, nothing is ever good enought & they will scapegoat you on anything they can.
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Registered: 01-07-2009
In reply to: queenb_84
Mon, 04-06-2009 - 2:32pm

My husband was very egotistical. He wasn't flagrantly narcisistic. It was his career and position that did it to him. He

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Registered: 10-08-2008
In reply to: queenb_84
Tue, 04-07-2009 - 9:19am

"Another thing which I think affects it is when they see time catching up with them. When there becomes some physical breakdown, they can see who is REALLY of value to them in their life. Will it be a hot little number who gave them a b.j.

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Registered: 09-12-2008
In reply to: queenb_84
Tue, 04-07-2009 - 2:12pm

I thought I read an article after the whole Monica Lewinski thing with Clinton that showed that CEOs of companies had like five times the testosterone of the average male.

There was a "This American Life" episode called Testosterone that was fantastic.

http://www.thisamericanlife.org/Radio_Episode.aspx?episode=220

Anyway, just my 2 cents.

Thomas

5 kids ages 15-9, D Day: August 5, 2008

Status: Rebuilding

Thomas

We have five kids. Our D-Day was in August, 2008.

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Registered: 02-10-2009
In reply to: queenb_84
Tue, 04-07-2009 - 2:26pm
My H just had his testosterone level checked -his therapist thought it might be a good idea. Don't know what the result is, but what can you do if it's high?
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Registered: 09-12-2008
In reply to: queenb_84
Tue, 04-07-2009 - 2:37pm

Humm.

I don't know? Other than a knee to the crotch occasionally. he he

If you find out, would you post that?

Thomas

5 kids ages 15-9, D Day: August 5, 2008

Status: Rebuilding

Thomas

We have five kids. Our D-Day was in August, 2008.

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Registered: 10-08-2008
In reply to: queenb_84
Wed, 04-08-2009 - 12:35pm

This makes sense to me


I have always thought my husband had high testosterone levels.