need to get a grip

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-21-2008
need to get a grip
Tue, 01-26-2010 - 12:24am

When I do start trusting again ???

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-09-2008
Sat, 01-30-2010 - 12:18am

I'm sorry you haven't received any responsees until now, Pamom.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-02-2007
Sun, 01-31-2010 - 12:39am

You asked when you should start trusting again? From what you have written your H does not deserve your trust. IMO, he is verbally and emotionally abusive. He is trying to destroy your self-esteem. I don't think you should stand for it.

Have you read the 180 rules? Please do so. I think you need to be concerned about yourself and your children. What kind of role model is he for your boys?

From what you have described, I suspect he is still involved with the OW. No man who is interested in rebuilding his M would speak to his W the way he has spoken to you.

What has this man done to earn your trust? Sounds like he is only concerned about himself, not you or the kids.

Be strong.