need opinion from those who r rebuilding

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Registered: 04-14-2009
need opinion from those who r rebuilding
Thu, 04-23-2009 - 12:56am

Found out 2 weeks ago H was with a prostitute. he says he wants to work things out, i said i forgive him. I am having a hard time getting the "how could u" thoughts out of my head(we have a 22 month old and a newborn)..He brought me

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Registered: 03-24-2009
Thu, 04-30-2009 - 11:01am
very well said thinkingman!
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Registered: 02-04-2009
Sat, 04-25-2009 - 8:56am


His behavior isn't at all unusual and it could be because you're going through different things.

"If something cannot go on forever, it will stop."  Herb Stein

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Registered: 01-07-2009
Thu, 04-23-2009 - 5:05pm
Maybe he will watch the movie Fireproof with you? It goes into the issues of how to woe and behave during the rebuilding. Good luck to you.
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Registered: 09-05-2008
Thu, 04-23-2009 - 1:14am

pattycake770 - very sorry you have to post here.

Look for the 180 list and words from Wise Advisors here on this Board.