New Meaning to Independence Day
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|Sun, 07-04-2010 - 11:17am|
Quick rundown, H had a PA when our 6 1/2 yo was born after pulling away from me during pregnancy b/c the docs thought something was wrong with the baby. H pulled away and he got lonely. Affair lasted 3 mos, got caught, continued contact, got caught. Rebuilding went well except alcohol continued to be an issue.
H drank a decent amount one evening in April and ended up kissing/fondling a practical stranger right in front of me. This after being in mc and ic for over 6 yrs! I act like his parent and am always angry at him. H doesn't like rules and so breaks them and just wants to be a friend/good guy to our two boys - so I am ALWAYS angry with him.
My H moved out last week.
I am so proud of myself for finally standing up for myself!!!
H is scared and wants to be different/do different . . . but I noticed this weekend that even though he doesn't have much in his new place, he did manage to pack our coctail shaker and 1/2 of our double old fashioned drink glasses. Hmmm
I felt so angry when I first saw he did this and now I have mostly peace b/c I am not going to drag him into adulthood anymore! Only H controls what H does! Gives a new meaning to Independence Day!
Don't get me wrong though, I am VERY sad that all of this hard work didn't result in a mature and respectful marriage . . . but I vow to myself that I will live a life of dignity from now on!
Happy 4th! sniff sniff