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|Tue, 01-03-2006 - 2:41pm|
My H doesn't get jealous...I mean ever. He says it's because he knows I'd never cheat and because he knows I'll remain faithful so who cares if other guys flirt with me, no chance of cheating no reason to be jealous. I was never a REALLY jealous person either, I mean I have had that twinge in the past but rarely until the A's where I became pretty jealous, and justifyably at that.
Last Thursday we were both sick and didn't go to work. By 6 I realized that I had to get a package to someone that night or there would be hell to pay. I was supposed to do it a month ago and sent someone to do it, but through miscommunication it was never done. I told H I had to go and he started in on 20 questions which he doesn't normally do. I came to the office (20 mins away) Got the package, got the address, got a map to it and dropped it off. It took about an hour to get there and do all that. I got on the freeway and called H "I'm on my way home, need anything while I'm out?" He says "No I just feel really really sick can you come home fast?" So I get home and we have soup and everything is normal.
2 days later he finally makes a confession to me. He said for the first time ever he felt really uneasy about me going out like that. He said he started to get suspicious and jealous and thought I might be going out to meet someone. He said he didn't like what it felt like and was very sorry for making me feel like that...DAILY! Not to mention when I called he was so flustered and suspicious that he faked being more sick so I'd hurry home. I was really surprised because well, nothing about it was weird to me and I've never cheated and only took an hour. I just thought it was interesting that he experienced soemthing like that while I was simply getting a package to someone so I didn't get fired.
We have counseling on the 17th...I want to find out why he suddenly felt that way. Maybe something is up?