an old friend, new lies

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-27-2009
an old friend, new lies
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Sat, 12-05-2009 - 11:44am

Now it's been about 3.5 months for me.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-16-2006
Sat, 12-05-2009 - 12:16pm
You are definitely not asking for too much or expecting too much.
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-16-2008
Sat, 12-05-2009 - 12:35pm
3.5 months and he has already formed an emotional attachment to another woman
he is way out of line
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-27-2009
Sat, 12-05-2009 - 12:54pm

Thank you.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-16-2008
Sat, 12-05-2009 - 1:20pm
So he cheated on you just 3 months ago, and he is already getting together for lunch with a female friend without you? Totally UNACCEPTABLE. He has no right to be meeting her for lunch or whatever alone. The fact that he already had an affair shows that he is vulnerable to this behavior. There is no reason for him to be going out to eat with her, unless you can also can go along. I think he is bored not working and he is seeking attention from her, and looking at the porn because he has nothing better to do when you are at work. I think many times when you leave a guy alone and bored all day he finds inappropriate things to do just for excitement. He lied to you about the porn and I think it is strange that all the history is there except the porn sites, I think he is deleting them so you can't see what he is doing during the day. And relating his porn use to his affair with a young girl tells me he wanted to turn his porn fantasy into reality. I would not trust him if I were you. He has too much time on his hands to get into trouble.
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-08-2007
Sat, 12-05-2009 - 5:38pm

Did you notice that you are questioning YOURSELF in dealing with him?


You need to put your FIRM foot down and accept NOTHING LESS than what you DESERVE. You are married. He is MARRIED. You are supposed to be ONE.


He is finding a way to make his relationships with women acceptable to you. Problem is- he tells you AFTER he has done things. I do not trust what he is saying to you and I will tell you why.