oldtimer stopping by.. 4 yrs and REBUILT

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Registered: 11-22-2004
oldtimer stopping by.. 4 yrs and REBUILT
Tue, 05-19-2009 - 3:01pm

Hello everyone. I just thought I would check in and update.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 05-21-2009 - 6:04pm

Tea, a cyber hug from me because your post is exactly what I needed to read today! I have had to really limit my reading on this board because it just makes me feel more insecure and I'm trying to be positive now and focus on the rebuilding. Hearing about those who have just found out brings back the pain like it happened yesterday.

I read that you had anger, I have yet to have that. Just intense hurt. I do believe 100% that right now H is on board and wants our marriage to flourish as do I. However, I still get the gut-punched feeling occasionally that he might change his mind. I know I need to try to focus on some other things, a large party for my mother,

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Registered: 08-01-2008
Tue, 05-26-2009 - 1:21pm
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Registered: 03-25-2008
Tue, 05-26-2009 - 2:48pm


I am glad you came by to update us. Your posts have helped me a lot.