One year since DDay
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|Wed, 04-15-2009 - 3:02pm|
A year ago I found a love note to my husband from his AP. He was still trying to deny everything but the evidence was all there. We are trying to move on and are having counselling. Tragically our counsellor died last week and I just can't think of replacing him yet. My husband thinks that we can cope without counselling and yet I feel that we had only just begun to get anywhere.
I destroyed the original love note I found but have recently found a copy on my husband's laptop. I've also found a copy of a love song he wrote her and he recently told me he wants to keep it. I didn't say anything but felt deeply hurt. I really don't know if I can ever get over his betrayal. Sometimes I think that although he may move on from the affair I will be stuck with it for ever. I know that many of you have said that the pain is easier to bear after a couple of years.