OW baby is due soon!

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Registered: 12-06-2009
OW baby is due soon!
Wed, 04-07-2010 - 1:52pm

I'm having a moment...one of many!

My H OW baby is due any day now and it's freaking me out. My H has shut down completely, he doesn't know what to do or say. I find I'm angry all the time and we were in a good place there for a while. There has been NC with the OW since January...or so he says. I guess I don't believe that more because if I was pregnant with some guys baby I wouldn't be able to not talk to him and tell him how I'm doing but then again, I wouldn't be in this situation.

I'm terrified of what's to come. What the OW is going to do, how my H is going to react and what is going to come of us and our marriage. At one point I thought we could do this, we could make it thru it no problem. Now, I'm not so sure.

Emotionally he's just not there for me and I thought he would be. He just seems to go about life as though nothing has happened. And to be honest, so is the OW. I just don't know how to get myself to that place where I'm not thinking about it and can carry on like they do.

If anyone has been in this situation...please let me know.

Thanks for reading!

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-28-2004
Wed, 04-07-2010 - 2:53pm

Im sure this is bringing up old feelings again.

Hang in there. Have you talked to your H about your fears or even your thoughts? You need to.

Have a sit down talk soon. Ask those lingering questions you have. Put it all on the table and see what he is expecting also.

Hang in there.