OW contacts my Husband!!! Please read
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|Tue, 05-19-2009 - 10:01am|
Well, it had been months since the OW had contacted my H, he had filed a restraining order on her so that she would stop, we went to court, the order was not granted but she did stop contacting him. Until last friday out of the blue she started to play games. She changed her phone number & i guess she wants my H to have it. She started texting him & leaving him voicemails asking for a "Johnny", that is not my H's name. He ignored her & her messages. I contacted her & told her not to contact my H, she denied to be the OW & she denied knowing my H, i still let her have anyway. So she calls my H back, H ignores the call & she leaves him a message saying that she doesnt want to fight, that she was just calling him to say Hi, that she forgives him for taking her to court, that she is now married to her boyfriend & that she loves him. She kept repeating that she forgives my H. That was her last call/message as far as i know.
I contacted her again & told her that is she continued that i would let her new husband know that she is doing. The next day i confronted her at her house so that she would see that i am not playing & she will not mess with my family again. She ran inside.
30 minutes later she calls me and says "listen, listen, i will never call your H again, i didnt think you would find out & i never thought you would come to my house, i was just calling him to say hi, to see how the baby is doing & to see how everything is with the family, but i wont call him egain because i dont cant you coming to my house & get me in trouble with my husband", i told her that my H is not her friend for her to feel like she needs to check on him & see how he is doing & that he took her to court for that same reason, so that she would stop contacting him & disrupting our marriage.
So as far as i know that was the end of it, now i just dont want her & my H to initiate any type of contact. I doubt he or she has, but from reading all of your posts, you never know. He is not acting different or disappearing so i know he is not speaking to her again. The WS always make it obvious when they are lying, cheating. I just hope this is where it finally ends, as it seems that she always finds a way/reason/excuse to contact my H. I had to confront her to let her know that she will not do it again. It would have been totally different if it was my H who was reaching out to her, than i would not have confronted the OW, I would have kicked him out the house & filed divorce paper!!!!!!!!!