OW's blog and public posts

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Registered: 04-03-2010
OW's blog and public posts
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Sat, 04-03-2010 - 6:03pm
My situation was quite devastating but on the road to recovery. After 2 decades of marriage, my husband has a child with another woman. Child is over a year now. My H has joint custody but don't see him as often as he'd like since we live quite a distance from child. The OW didn't get her way when her planned pregnancy didn't make my H feel the need to divorce me. My H and I have a long history together and I didn't want to throw it all away. I forgave him and we are trying to move on. The OW, however, feels the need to degrade my H in public forums such as myspace and facebook. At first her comments were directed to him and recently they've been directed to me. I guess I shouldn't let it get to me. Her plans and wishes for my husband to leave me just didn't go her way and for this she is angry, bitter, hateful, and full of negative comments about my H. I know she will try to instill this into her child as he grows up. This is her 5th child. Still living with her parents. Living off child support and public assistance I'm sure. Whatever it was that made her attractive is beyond me. Although I hate her posting, I need to stop looking at them. I guess she's succeeding in having me read them so that I can respond to her, which I don't. I will NOT sink to her low life level!!!! Has anyone experienced the OW furry on public forums? How do you handle the situation?
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Registered: 04-03-2010
Sun, 04-04-2010 - 12:29am

I deleted my myspace and facebook accounts.

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Registered: 01-28-2004
Mon, 04-05-2010 - 6:12pm

I have had to deal with that in person. The OW ruined my reputation in my daughters school. I had to change schools because of it. But now finding out years later that I did take the high road. I did what was best for my daughter. I always kept her first and in her best interest.

Same for you. You do what you need to do and be strong and truthful.

(it might take one to soil. but it wont take love to prevail)
Hang in there

dont read them anymore.....if you feel the need to then play a game online instead. delete the temptation.