please respod i need help! im sorry its long

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Registered: 03-24-2012
please respod i need help! im sorry its long
Sat, 03-24-2012 - 11:38am

hi all,

i feel i can relate to someone atleast and tell me what to do, mine is the most awkward situation

my husband of 14 years cheated on me for past 4-5 years and i never found out bc i trusted him so much. 3 months ago i received a ltter in mail anonymous from someone telling me that my husband is having an affir with this ( name of the girl) for years and she is a whore and to take care of my health, i felt as if earth moved out of my feet. i aksde my hsuband, and unfortunately his family was visiting us that day, so i had to hide my emotions, i took him in our

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Registered: 02-22-1999
Sat, 03-24-2012 - 3:29pm

Ditto to the HR.

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Registered: 04-16-2008
Sat, 03-24-2012 - 1:05pm
I would turn in those slanderous texts she sent you to HR and maybe they'll fire her for provokoing you. And then I would get yourself and your H into marriage counseling.