Received email from OW/Ex-best friend...not what I wanted though

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Registered: 02-11-2000
Received email from OW/Ex-best friend...not what I wanted though
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Fri, 12-16-2011 - 12:33pm

The OW/ex-best friend finally contacted me after my requests, but only to tell me she has a letter for me telling me how much my friendship meant to her??????

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Registered: 04-16-2008
I agree she could have waited till AFTER the holidays to do this. At least she admits she was being selfish and is ashamed of herself. My H OW was a friend of mine too. BUT once it was over I never heard a word from her. NO APOLOGY, NO WORDS OF REGRET, NOTHING. But then again this wasn't the first time she cheated on her H ( later found out from her H that my H was #3 affair for her) so maybe she didn't have a conscience and it was better that way. I would have appreciated SOMETHING from her in the way of an apology, but of course NEVER could have been friends with her after that cause I wouldn't have trusted her anywhere near my H.
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Registered: 09-09-2008

I think responses are rarely what we expect or hope for.