Roadblock in rebuilding

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-25-2005
Roadblock in rebuilding
Sat, 07-18-2009 - 8:03am

How do you get the OW out of your mind when trying to rebuild and reconnect? How can I get rid of the horrible images of them together that invade my brain 24/7?

I would have no idea where to start as far as counseling goes ... not sure what his insurance would cover, who to call, whether it would be someone I could feel comfortable with, etc. The thought of even starting the process of counseling scares me to death but I need my sanity and my life back so we can move forward.

Is there a magic wand out there somewhere to make it all go away?


iVillage Member
Registered: 05-05-2009
Sat, 07-18-2009 - 1:20pm

First of all, if you can afford it at all, go to counseling yourself, in addition to MC.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-07-2009
Mon, 07-20-2009 - 2:34pm