Roller coaster really is the right words

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Registered: 09-09-2008
Roller coaster really is the right words
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Wed, 11-18-2009 - 1:41am

This has been such a confusing time lately, this could be long, not sure!

 

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Registered: 01-07-2009
Wed, 11-18-2009 - 8:01am

Yeah, straighten her out before she adds

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Registered: 11-16-2006
Wed, 11-18-2009 - 9:58am
Myra, it is really amazing how much effect the physical condition has on the mental condition.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-09-2008
Wed, 11-18-2009 - 11:40am
Oh, I'm quite sure now she has told others the same lie, why stop at one?

 

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Registered: 09-09-2008
Wed, 11-18-2009 - 11:44am
So true, I think I haven't paid attention to all the stress in my life this year, it's off the charts, totally off the charts.

 

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Registered: 10-27-2009
Sat, 11-21-2009 - 12:53pm
Myra
You are so right about the drugs and how much they mess they add to the upset and confusion we are all dealing with daily. I had my second D-day in Oct just 2 weeks after major shoulder surgery. It had been almost a year since my H's A had begun. So add a medical condition + drugs + infidelity and the sum is disaster.
You can't think straight, your never sure which emotion is from pain, drugs or the actions of your H.
Hang in there, good to hear that your off the drugs now, it has made a huge difference in my ability to deal with all the emotions,fears and pain.
Glad to hear that you guys are working so hard and he seems to be standing behind you.
Trust is the hardest thing to re-gain - at least for me it has. I struggle each and every day. Not only for me to trust him which seems to be taking for ever. But I now know that he is also learning to trust me, though I am not the one that had the A, we have discovered that trust is broken on both sides.
He has to trust that when he is working on building on my feelings of distrust that he can be honest without my freaking out, getting angry and so forth.
It is such a long hard road. And we all deal with the roller coaster ride yet there are so may posts out there of the relationships that have seemed to made it out of the final dark tunnel to the straight track at the end of the ride.
I hope that you get all that you wish in life.
Good luck to you
Its all about him.
Its all about him.
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Registered: 09-09-2008
Sat, 11-21-2009 - 3:59pm
I was actually joking with a friend about this the other night, she said wouldn't it be a hoot to have a tape recorder in her apartment?

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-09-2008
Sat, 11-21-2009 - 4:17pm

Drugs mess with everything.

 

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Registered: 08-10-2009
Sun, 11-22-2009 - 2:19pm

Hi Myra.


So glad to hear you are on the mend.

T.J.