Should I leave BF over ex-WS?
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|Thu, 03-21-2013 - 10:22am|
Hello fellow bs’s!!!! Please help me as I am having a problem with my bf. As you all know we are both bs’s. His former gf drank heavily and cheated on him several times. I posted a while ago about her trying to get back with him prior and during our relationship.
Well anyway, about a month ago we had a small argument when he mentioned her; stating she was the best gf he ever had and it was the best relationship minus the drinking and cheating and that he would go back to her in a heartbeat. I said to him “So you would rather be with a drunken wh##@ than me?” and he said “YES!!!” and said I wasn't there at the time of their relationship and NOT TO JUDGE HER....
I am at a complete crossroad at this. We were looking at houses and I have told him that I no longer wish to do that. I have been distancing myself from him and he asked why… we discussed some issues we were having but I did not bring up her (We both have very busy schedules and I just don’t have the energy to fight about that b**&ch)
I am really contemplating leaving him. He has hurt me to the inner core and I don’t even know if I love him anymore because of this. Because our schedules are so busy we really have not spent any time together so I don’t know if that is why I feel this way.
His friends told me that they hated her and said he could not take her to any social functions b/c she would get drunk and make a$$ of herself…and he wants her over me????????????????????
My friends say he said this in anger and it is not true and I need to get over it. But after everything I have been thru I cannot. I refuse to buy a house with a man who will twiddle his thumbs and wait for some drunken woman to come knocking….What would you do???
By the way, they broke up in 2007 and he still has pics, cards and love letters all over his house…..
Thanks a bunch…love Christy