Socializing after the A?
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|Fri, 04-21-2006 - 1:44pm|
Well, my H has agreed to go to MC and insists that coworker OW is leaving the country so NC is imminent and a job change is uneccesary. I had an appt w/ a lawyer to file for Thursday and he finally decided to stop me, though at the last minute.
So anyway, we have our first social event tonight since dday. The guest of honor is the only one I have told but I'm sure she has told everyone, I mean I don't blame her, this is juicy stuff. Heck, I'm posting everything on the Internet so obviously privacy is not a big issue for me. However, how did you rebuilders handle this? I mean, I 'kinda' feel sorry for him and wonder if any of the guys will even talk to him and I wonder if anyone will flat out ask me and if I'll be stuck in the closet getting drunk and talking to anyone who will listen to my poor pathetic story... I don't want to do this. I WANT to hold my head high and rise above this. But is that what's gonna happen? I hope to just make a brief appearance and excuse ourselves. Kids are out for the night, which is rare and would like to also do some serious rebuilding on our own, also..
So can anyone give advice on this or share an experience? Would love to hear it!