My W and the OM just "broke up" last night.
Mikelion, I would suggest individual AND joint marital counseling for both of you.
2 books I'd like to recommend:
Thanks for the feedback.
Mike I had to watch my husband grieve. The grieving of the redhead was the worst. But I had no idea what I was watching, I thought it was depression. I suggested a doctor and counseling.
Yes, NC is the ONLY way recovery and rebuilding can occur.