My husband has been saying that he wants our marriage to work despite
Will your H to go therapy with you?
I have mixed emotions here. My spouse fell for the other man and she is trying to get over him. So I sort of understand That part. But rebuilding is about having a better marriage than what was there before. Don't settle for going back to what it was before. I've seen my spouse struggle to see things my way. But I saw her trying. And I saw progress. I see progress. If your not seeing progress. It's time to lay down the law. You need to say that you need transparency. Go over the phone records together, the charges together, his time and calendar together his emails and text messages, all of it.
DW even goes over mine. I called her friends a few times pumping them for info. This showed up on my phone bill and I was held accountable for them. Can't say that I was wrong to call them, but we had a conversation about it.
This is your life, it's way too short to put up with crapolla for too long.
5 kids ages 15-9, D Day: August 5, 2008
Status: Figuring it out. Together.
ThomasWe have five kids. Our D-Day was in August, 2008.