Today is my Anniversary!!!;)

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Registered: 11-22-2004
Today is my Anniversary!!!;)
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Thu, 04-27-2006 - 10:14am

Wow! Today is my anniversary. Can you believe it? I can't. I really didn't think i would have any more after dday. It started out great so far. My husband spoke my love language. I was feeling quite yucky after the counseling appt. last Friday. I even scheduled an appt with her earlier for the next one because I felt so angry! Anyways due to my appt I was wondering how I was going to feel today. Considering we have plans to go away next weekend. I thought we would celebrate then but no he surprised me well. I just have to remember how hard my husband is trying. It's almost as if I have to excuse him for being ignorant. I want to bash him right away but I have to remember that he is just ignorant and he needs to be educated by a professional. I get to be the patient wife. Boy it's hard to be patient with your loved one after they have put *you* thru the sh**.

My real dday is this weekend. Ladies please help me if I come here because I am scared of how I will feel. I am scared because it's unknown to me.

Thank you everyone with your well wishes regarding our X stupid counselor. I felt bad for my husband because he really got the wrath( or is it rath? LOL) of my last counseling appt. One day I was just picking on him telling him how lucky he is because I have been so patient with him. I put my self righteous hat on and I remember yelling at him. That next day I called the counselor and scheduled an earlier appt. I also apologized to my husband for not giving him credit for his efforts. Thank you everyone, Tea

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Registered: 09-19-2005
Thu, 04-27-2006 - 10:33am

Happy Anniversary. You've grown so much in the past year - and you're still growing. Your H is very fortunate to have you as his wife and I'm happy he's working hard on his end. My actual dday anniversaries (two of them) were better than I expected. Its all that time leading up to it that I worried and felt sick about what I was going through last year.

hugs,
hannah

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Registered: 02-17-2005
Thu, 04-27-2006 - 3:55pm

Happy Anniversary, Tea!

Luna

It is better to offer no excuse than a bad one.

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Registered: 08-09-2000
Thu, 04-27-2006 - 4:46pm

Happy Anniversary Tea!! You and your husband have been "working" so hard. Take some time today to just enjoy each other's company. You are both very blessed.

Julie