Today the roller coaster is a little low

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-22-1999
Today the roller coaster is a little low
2
Fri, 02-25-2011 - 3:37pm

DDay was Jan. 5th and since then we have really been working on a lot of issues.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-02-2008
Sun, 02-27-2011 - 10:44pm

Hi, I hope that you are doing better today. I am not sure you know about our term here called "mind movies". I just want to let you know to be careful of the "need to know" questions. I got way way too much information after the second dday and now, even though its been almost three years, I still suffer from the "movies" that jump out and play over and over.

Its sounds like your H is out of the fog though, so now you both can begin the healing journey. I wish you well.

Peace to you

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-16-2008
Mon, 02-28-2011 - 1:17pm

hey don't let it get to you he is still looking at it through rose colored glasses and it is more escapism BS

if she meant that much to him he would not have made her a mistress and would be with her instead

im sure she cannot have understood him better than you I think he is thinking what he wants to and it is this perception that helped him cross the line (an excuse)

you need to detach yourself abit - this guy has much work to do inside

Be strong he is just trying to justify his actions still