Trust After Internet Affair

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-08-2009
Trust After Internet Affair
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Tue, 11-17-2009 - 5:49pm
About 6 months ago, I discovered that my husband was having an internet affair that had been going on for the entire time that we had been together. I found about 6 months worth of chats. They were definitely not just friendly! I told my husband that I knew. He promised that he would not talk to her again and blocked her from his Facebook page and his Google Chat. I have no idea how to get back to being happy with him. How do I trust him again? I believe that he isn't talking to her now, but what about in the future? What can I do to prevent this from happening again and rebuild trust?
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-07-2009
Tue, 11-17-2009 - 8:12pm

Complete and total transparency on his part can help, in fact I have found is necessary when recovoing from this kind of thing. Another important thing to do now while he is in a willing attitude is have software installed in the computers he uses to monitor where he goes and what he does there. IMO if he has been involved with her or others online

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