Two Yrs of Rebuilding

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Registered: 07-12-2010
Two Yrs of Rebuilding
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Mon, 07-12-2010 - 2:35pm

Two years and one month ago, I found out my wonderful H of many yrs was having an A.

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Registered: 10-09-2008
Mon, 07-12-2010 - 5:05pm

It's great

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-19-2010
Fri, 02-04-2011 - 12:22pm

hello, ivil.

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Registered: 11-09-2010
Fri, 02-11-2011 - 12:22pm

I'm so glad for you! Seems that you both are working very hard towards having a better marriage! That's great!

My DDay was 6 months ago and my life is hell since this day. My husband is like a beaten dog, but he won't do anything actively for our relationsship than "being there" as he calls it. That's what i is: he is there. That's it. He wouldn't read any books I begged him top read, only had lousy excuses for not having read them...I'm not very hopeful and I'm not sure I want it anyway. He has distroyed a life that has been very hard to bear anyway. Maybe I should be grateful and leave when the kids are old enough? I certainly won't let him leave his family now (and he says he will stay as long as I can bear him), I won't allow him to hurt the kids. I'm so confused, I'm sorry. He is a pig.

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Registered: 03-02-2011
Wed, 03-02-2011 - 3:40pm

Good for you ivil.