Us, The Survivors

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-10-2009
Us, The Survivors
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Tue, 11-24-2009 - 7:40pm

Hi To All,


I read this today and thought about all of us.

T.J.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 01-29-2010
Fri, 02-05-2010 - 11:37am

I so agree with you and I too am a survivor and not a victim!!!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2010
Fri, 02-05-2010 - 3:16pm

Hi everyone


I discovered these boards sometime last year and have been reading all the posts for months now.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-09-2010
Fri, 02-05-2010 - 6:15pm
Thank you TJ, and yes, I want to stop feeling like a victim and start being a survivor... I read a book surviving infidelity - I've read many, but that one was the best so far... and I like that... Survivor - thanks!
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-03-2010
Sat, 02-06-2010 - 11:52am

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iVillage Member
Registered: 01-09-2010
Mon, 02-08-2010 - 8:09am
I haven't read after the affair yet, will have to put that on my list of books to get - I do high light the Surviving Infidelity (all books actually) and have read him parts of SI - Plus MC - it helps. Still am having a rough time though and he's being really good!
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-09-2010
Mon, 02-08-2010 - 8:16am
Amarina -
None of us deserved this....
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-03-2010
Mon, 02-08-2010 - 11:46am
Amen. No one deserves to feel this way. No one deserves to cope with this type of pain....And no spouse should allow this pain to occur in the first place.
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-09-2010
Tue, 02-09-2010 - 7:32am
There are so many of us, and more coming daily, it hurts just to see the numbers. And no, no one deserves this pain. To have it or inflict it. I never thought that there were this many stupid selfish people around.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-10-2009
Sat, 02-13-2010 - 9:52pm
I too think of myself as a survivor, but even knowing this, there is still a loneliness in having experienced betrayal and how it changes you forever. We can put it behind us, move forward and rebuild better lives, but we are never the same.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-16-2010
Tue, 02-16-2010 - 6:49pm

Never been said better.

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