Was this Heartbreak or Insult for you?

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Registered: 01-07-2009
Was this Heartbreak or Insult for you?
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Tue, 11-03-2009 - 8:18am

Sometimes I notice

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Registered: 09-09-2008
Tue, 11-03-2009 - 8:41am
I'm not sure I have much luck separating the two.

 

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Registered: 11-16-2006
Tue, 11-03-2009 - 10:54am

For me it has definitely been heartbreaking. I am not comfortable with anger to begin with, have always been a romantic...so absolutely, the heart broke.


Both of us are conflict avoiders, which is part of the reason we got into this mess, so I am getting much more comfortable with anger. And I think that is a good thing.

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Registered: 01-07-2009
Tue, 11-03-2009 - 1:27pm

Thank you Myra.

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Registered: 07-08-2008
Sun, 11-08-2009 - 10:05pm

Georgiannasx,myradorn,


It has been a very long time since I have been on this board. I would read the threads quite often, but did not reply or start a thread.

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Registered: 01-07-2009
Mon, 11-09-2009 - 1:08am

It's really nice to

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Registered: 06-25-2007
Mon, 11-09-2009 - 2:56pm
I am just so sad and heartbroken.
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Registered: 07-08-2008
Mon, 11-09-2009 - 9:48pm

Great to see your reply George. I am so happy for you! You sound like life is going well and that is so important. My life too is well, until I "tank" down the ugly path of remembrance. And with that comes bad visons and thoughts and resentment and saddness...all my own doings...........you see H is wonderful, he is happy, he is normal, he is loving and kind and able to forget all the wrong he did as he is so ashamed. I on the other hand struggle so.........he has had 6+ years to forget, 5 of which he lied to me.........so he is once again one up on me......he did "it", he got away with "it" and

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 11-22-2009 - 9:26pm
Definitely heartbroken. I have yet to feel the anger that my pastor said was buried somewhere inside me. I am still amazed that my husband, lover and best friend could do that to me. I truly feel alone now. I was so sure of his love and devotion that I never doubted he had my back. Well, he was carrying on behind my back and it resulted in heartbreak.