HUGS to you Ties: There isnt really much to add as Chijd said it all so well. I do agree that you did everything in your power to try to make things right so you will have no regrets as you move forward.
I hope you stay here to lend support to others who must endure this horrible trauma so that they too can know that the strength you have shown can be found by all.
I wish you all the best as you embark on a brighter more peaceful future.
You did your best. You tried.
Ties, I'm so sorry to hear it has come to this.
"If something cannot go on forever, it will stop." Herb Stein
Hugs ties! Once you get to the "we are done" place you can look forward without holding on to looking back! All the best to you and I wish you strength and a wonderful future!
Thanks so much, chijd,
One thing I realized fairly early on - before my H had his "OMG!" moment and woke the heck up - was that the man I thought I knew could be gone forever.
For many months after DDay, it was as if my H had quite suddenly become someone else, someone foreign and creepy, weird and wildly immature.
Thanks so much, bjean.
I just read your post and it sounds so much like my life.