When u cry, why do you cry?Do u know y?

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When u cry, why do you cry?Do u know y?
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Mon, 10-26-2009 - 8:35am

Do you also still cry about it?


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iVillage Member
Registered: 01-07-2009
Tue, 10-27-2009 - 4:20am
No one cries anymore?
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iVillage Member
Registered: 05-08-2009
Tue, 10-27-2009 - 11:58am
I can't speak for everyone, but no, I don't cry anymore.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-04-2009
Tue, 10-27-2009 - 12:29pm
Now and then still, but not as much as in the past and the uncontrollable sobbing is gone.

"If something cannot go on forever, it will stop."  Herb Stein

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Registered: 10-21-2009
Tue, 10-27-2009 - 4:05pm

I totally understand and yes, I still cry.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-07-2009
Tue, 10-27-2009 - 4:40pm
Sometimes for me, the thing is, I HAVE STANDARDS. I had to resisit a lot in high school
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iVillage Member
Registered: 08-18-2008
Wed, 10-28-2009 - 2:50pm

It's ALMOST a year and a half for me and sometimes I do cry.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-31-2009
Wed, 10-28-2009 - 9:03pm

i still cry,
i still ask myself how.
i still ask myself why.
i still ask myself when will it end - the pain.
i still ask myself who am i?
i still ask myself who is he, really?

i still ask myself will it ever stop.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-02-2008
Wed, 10-28-2009 - 9:36pm
The tears do not come often now but I still
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-09-2008
Thu, 10-29-2009 - 1:43am

I guess not nearly as often as before, but when the dam breaks it's pretty damp.

 

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Registered: 09-12-2008
Thu, 10-29-2009 - 2:51pm

In 20 years, my spouse saw me allow one sob escape my throat the night my father died. My brothers and I were taught by an old-fashioned Father to suck it up. Being a man is about enduring whatever is thrown at you. Even after my spouse asked for the divorce I didn't cry. The moment she told me about the affair, I could feel it coming and within 30 seconds, I started to cry, and I could not stop for months. The fact is that I found it odd--this noise coming from my throat. I seriously had to actually learn how to cry. I didn't know any other way to release these emotions.

And even now I still don't know how to regain my previously held composure. I think I've just abandoned it. I don't cry audibly anymore but I do have to cary sunglasses now in case I have an episode.

Thomas

5 kids ages 16-10, D Day: August, 2008

What I'm doing to rebuild: Therapy, Books, Exercise, Forgiveness.

Thomas

We have five kids. Our D-Day was in August, 2008.

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