Where we find ourselves... today...

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-16-2009
Where we find ourselves... today...
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Sat, 11-14-2009 - 8:57pm

We've had an emotional time, lately.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 10-09-2008
Tue, 11-24-2009 - 10:30pm

Hi, Ties!

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-10-2009
Tue, 11-24-2009 - 6:34pm

Hi Ties,


No you're not talking too much.

T.J.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-16-2009
Mon, 11-23-2009 - 4:08pm

Hi everybody.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-09-2008
Sat, 11-21-2009 - 8:22pm

Are you ok, Ties?


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Registered: 09-09-2008
Wed, 11-18-2009 - 12:16am
All I can really say here is I think this 90-day thing will be good for YOU, no matter how it ends up.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-09-2008
Mon, 11-16-2009 - 10:06pm

Ties, I’ve been thinking about your post for a few days now.



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iVillage Member
Registered: 01-07-2009
Mon, 11-16-2009 - 8:06am

Hummmm........


When you talk aobut patterns we seem to have this pattern where my husband is a little 'overly enthusiastic' all the time.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 09-16-2009
Sun, 11-15-2009 - 3:23pm

Hi everybody.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-16-2008
Sun, 11-15-2009 - 1:10pm
Hi
neither of us went to counseling - though he would have
he said all the right things but did not do them
it was only after I asked him to leave that I saw any real changes in him
it took some time to get here but he is there for me now
he understands it does not go away
he does not discourage my feelings
he used to think only about himself and even brought up suicide (more selfishness)
he broke NC when my pain was too much for him to face and did the running away thing again
he is a different person now - I am starting to admire him again
of course I still have many issues and setbacks from all of this but I am content because he finally gets it
to go from where they begin to where they get it is quite a journey
it can happen
I hope this happens for you
sometimes from what i know and see here it only happens when it has to
meaning you have to get to the point where you are ready to live life with or without them
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-11-2009
Sun, 11-15-2009 - 2:42am
Has your H been in counseling before or seen a psychiatrist?

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