Where we stand now........

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Registered: 11-07-2009
Where we stand now........
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Wed, 04-28-2010 - 7:53am

My husband is EXTREMELY remorseful, still out of the house, and he cries almost every time he sees me because of what he has put me through.

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Wed, 04-28-2010 - 9:35am
Is he in therapy?
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Registered: 11-07-2009
Wed, 04-28-2010 - 12:05pm

Hi, we were in marriage counseling, and completed 8 sessions when I found out that he never stopped seeing the OW.

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Registered: 01-28-2004
Wed, 04-28-2010 - 3:39pm
what a tough situation and only one time in therapy. I would hold out till your next therapy session. bring it up then and see what your therapist says.


Edited 4/28/2010 3:40 pm ET by cl-missybee837
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Registered: 11-22-2004
Sun, 05-02-2010 - 11:21am

I don't know to much about your story but when his actions match his words. That's when you think about giving him a second chance.

When your PI work finds him in no contact that's when you think about letting him move back in too;)

It took me, 3 months after my second dday I kick him out but I "think" it was 3 months. and I believe I allowed him to sleep on the couch for awhile too when he first came back.

sorry it's really fuzzy now, 6yrs ago.