Why is what i want so hard?

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-27-2009
Why is what i want so hard?
Sun, 08-23-2009 - 6:55pm

Oh here I am back!!!

Well I did try and I did mean what I said in my last post I was 100% thinking that I was ready for change to come from me.


H rang me again and told me that I was completely right in all that I had said about his life that he was a fool, he was wasting time and that he loved me. I was taken aback abit and thought ok but prove it! So he said he was coming round the next day to talk. So around he came and said he wanted us to try to make things work. He said he wanted to take things slowly (yet again!)

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-16-2008
Sun, 08-23-2009 - 7:12pm
He cheated on you right? but still wants to talk to other women online?
He needs to show you he is serious and that you are #1
He should be willing to more than cut down on his online activities and messaging other women
maybe what he is offering is just not enough
it is understandable that you are hesitant and hence do not know what you want right now
be strong, your demands are reasonable
Peace & Strength to you
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-04-2009
Mon, 08-24-2009 - 11:13am

Yes it's hard, really hard.

"If something cannot go on forever, it will stop."  Herb Stein