You know it's getting better when......

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You know it's getting better when......
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Fri, 08-14-2009 - 9:17am

You know it's getting better when....... You fill in the blanks.


It IS getting much much better and recedeing away for me and here's how I know!

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Registered: 08-11-2008
Fri, 08-14-2009 - 10:54am

Georgianna I love your posts! I know it was getting better when...


I hope this isn't TMI but I felt so good when I was finally able to "orally service" my DH without thinking that the other skank did this to my H (ugh!). For months I could barely do it but the day that I was able to really put the "red light special" on him and make him almost go wild I had to laugh. Those mental images of that thing doing that to him were too much for me at first but it's good that I have reached a point where I know that I am making him feel really special again and he is to me also without having someone else in my head. Our S life has always been amazing for 16 years but for months after D-Day I was really in a lot of mental turmoil. I hope this post isn't too much for this board.

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Registered: 01-07-2009
Mon, 08-17-2009 - 2:57pm

You are SOOOOOO funny!

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Registered: 06-06-2007
Thu, 08-20-2009 - 8:14pm

caffeine,


that is exactly what i still cannot do--i hope i'm not too graphic now.

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Registered: 07-09-2009
Fri, 08-21-2009 - 3:18pm
you gals made my day! It is actually refreshing to see "better" things on here rather than misery. Of course I have been through that misery for 2 months since i found out. I think things are getting better on my end too. Lemme share and I would love you guys input or advice! My post is "Cheating Husband", by the way. Read it if you need to so I won't type a book this time lol. Basically, my
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Registered: 09-05-2006
Sat, 08-22-2009 - 7:58pm

while you offer me no hope - as my situation, as you know, is so much different than yours I STILL LOVE READING YOUR POSTS.

i rarely dream, but when i do----- occasionally there is a good one between the long hours of late night and early morning------ I DREAM OF BEING HAPPY WITH SOMEONE, LAUGHING, SMILING, GIGGLING i just can't make out the face!!!

your posts give many spouses faith that those spouses who do get it, can be repentant for their actions, that a new foundation can be laid, and a happy secure life lived with a loving partner.