You know what's hard? Learning to finally put yourself FIRST in your life!

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Registered: 09-09-2008
You know what's hard? Learning to finally put yourself FIRST in your life!
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Sun, 03-13-2011 - 1:07am

I think I'm actually doing better, FEELING better.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-09-2010

Hello,

unfortunately, I cannot give any advice, just wanted to tell you I feel the same. I don't love myself very much, much less since DDay, and it won't get any better.

My problem is, in addition to this, that I don't have any interest in myself anymore, just want some peace in my life, not wanting to think about our situation over and over again, because nothing has changed since DDay and it won't change in the future. We are living together as a parenting team, nothing more. I feel discarded even if he tells me that's not the case - he doesn't do the least thing to better my feelings. He thinks caressing me here and there in hope for getting sex again someday is "doing everything".

Sorry for wining again, today is a bad day.