13 days broken up and i saw him today
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13 days broken up and i saw him today
| Sun, 01-14-2007 - 10:07pm |
So we broke up on new years morning without any warning. He called today to get his bills and checkbook that he left behind. I told him to call me later since i was still sleeping. When he called later in the afternoon he was questioning where i was and telling me where he was. I gave up no info and told him that i didnt want to know where he was, i figure the less i know the better. So we met in a neutral place and i had his stuff for him. He then tells me we are separated and he still loves me. I just asked him if there was anything else and he said no, he said thank you very much and I walked away. I did not cry in front of him but turned and walked away and the tears began to flow. I just dont know what to do. I miss him terribly and today was the final closure by meeting and getting his stuff back. Very stressful, and i think i am still numb from the whole process. I know i need to focus on moving forward but today was a big step back for me..any advice?

Carrie
I second that. You should view this as a minor setback. So ... seperated? That bothers me. Are you just taking a break, or is it over? sounds to me like you need a bit of clarification, so be careful.
I would recommend no contact for a while and wait to see if he calls. Hopefully, you will have it together enough to tell him your honest feelings about what happened and make a decision of your own.
I'm sorry you have to go through this too... let me tell you that venting on this board has been wonderful because there are a LOT of moments where i'd like to call him and tell him EXACTLY what I think of what he did. I also got no warning on new years day... man did that suck.
Hang in there, you're going to be just fine!