For 13 months he loved me, then 1 day...

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Registered: 01-05-2006
For 13 months he loved me, then 1 day...
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Thu, 03-23-2006 - 8:24pm

Then he just stopped calling or returning my calls. It's been 3 weeks!

He was supposed to come over and spend the night and couldn't for whatever reason. And when I told him I was upset he called me clingy so I hung up on him. That was 3weeks ago. How can you go from seeing, loving, talking to someone everyday 5 times a day, to just NOTHING? I have no closure, we didn't even fight!! I'm sooo confused as to what is going on... Are we broken up? I mean... he won't even call me to tell me whats going on.

Has anyone ever gone through this? He just dropped me... like that. We were bestfriends, and the little tiff we had wasn't anything close to major.

Heartbroken and confused
Andrea

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Registered: 08-24-2005
Sun, 03-26-2006 - 10:53pm
You know-you should be angry...After 13 months in a relationship and being "in love with you"-how can he just drop off the face of the Earth? What do we call that-cowardice! If he is not even man enough to phone you and tell you what his deal is...let him go. Perhaps this is better than dealing with all the lies and bs that could fall from his face!
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Registered: 03-28-2006
Tue, 03-28-2006 - 4:54am
well my ex kind of did the same thing. all of a sudden i was too clingy but then when he did break up with me (after not calling or telling me for a week) he told me he needed space, his space turn out to be his ex who surprisingly all of a sudden wanted to get back with him...wonder why?! yea sorry but it might be another girl

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