2 days into it!! hell
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2 days into it!! hell
| Sat, 01-12-2008 - 5:07pm |
Hello fellow sufferers,
Im 2 days into my breakup and its just hell! Im blaming myself for all my bad moods and the arguments that drove her to dump me... Obviously havent slept since.. dont eat.. simply dont work...
Please tell me what the next step is because I cant take much more of this!

Awwww... I'm so sorry : (
Whatever you do ... don't blame yourself. That's what my ex might be doing right now as we speak, because in my case I let him go because we had so many problems we couldn't work out (and we tried really hard). I think you have to remind yourself that it's no one's fault. If things went wrong in the relationship, probably she was responsible equally to you ... or maybe even more so. But no one is RESPONSIBLE. Sometimes things just don't work even when two good people are in them. My ex was a really good guy, but in the end, we just weren't compatible. As friends, we get along fine, but sometimes these things simply don't work, and there is no one to blame or anything.
Maybe to make yourself feel better, think of some of your girlfriend's faults that you couldn't stand when you were together. Yeah I know this is not exactly a NICE thing to do, but there's always going to be something that you go "wow! I don't have to put up with that crap anymore!" God knows, if I was dumped by me, I might say it was great I didn't have to put with my crap anymore! (Not that what I said makes the least bit of sense, lol!).
Welcome to the board ste1,
Grieve for what might have been, for what could have been, for what you hoped would have been.
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