Is 2 weeks a long enough time.......
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| Tue, 03-21-2006 - 5:22pm |
to figure out what direction to take?
Thats about how long we've not seen each other, other than a couple of briief emails. She replied that "she misses me too" also "can we be friends" and "thats all she can do right now". Thats she's "got a lot of stuff going on in her life". Time and space....
I have a bunch of clothes still at her place and I've been pretty good about not calling her.
I dont know if there's someone else in the picture .(she said theres not) or is she using this time to truely "figure out what she wants"...
I've been trying to work, stay busy and not obsess, but wow. as a guy, I'm heartbroken.
This were good and I thought we were happy for the 6-7 months we were together.
And yes we were in love. I honestlly dont know what happened.........

Every situation is different, so that's an impossible question to answer.
However, if she is telling you that friends is all she can do for now, then that's what you need to pay attention to. If I had to guess, I think she HAS made up her mind, but she doesn't want to hurt you by telling you that (which I think is a kooky way to think but everyone's different...I personally would much rather KNOW so I try to be as upfront with people as I can). I honestly don't think that a person who truly feels they are with someone who is right for them needs "time and space"...but that's just me, and I do recognize that everyone's different.
Unless you're truly ok with being platonic friends with her without the hope of "more" (and I personally can't imagine how that's possible with someone you're in love with), then you need to move on. She may change her mind, but don't count on it. Unless there is something that honestly can't be replaced in the stuff she has, let it go. I would email her and let her know what you're doing, and ask her to contact you if and only if she decides she is 100% committed to trying to work things out with you...otherwise, you'll get in touch when you're ready to be platonic friends.
Sheri