3 days to lose one's feelings?!
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| Sat, 04-29-2006 - 4:43am |
At the start of this week, my BF of 4 months told me how much I meant to him, and how deeply he felt about me. This were fine up till Thursday, when he dropped the bombshell and told me that he didn't think we were working out.
He said that somehow, his feelings towards me changed in the space of these few days!Honestly...how is that possible?!
There were no signs, no indications, no warnings! He told me on a Thursday night...after spending time with me on Thursday afternoon, doing what we usually do as a couple...talking, laughing, cuddling, kissing. So you can understand why I was completely shellshocked at the breakup!
I don't understand how feelings could suddenly change in a mere matter of days! I feel so low now, as if I'm not worth being loved and that there's something inherently flawed in me to make someone fall out of love with me in such a short time.
What went wrong? Could anyone provide their opinion, or some words of comfort?

I'm sorry, but I think he's blowing smoke up your butt about his feelings changing in 3 days. More likely, he was "trying the feelings on" when he said the things he did earlier in the week, seeing if he could talk himself into it. That does NOT mean there is ANYTHING wrong with you!!! Get that notion out of your head RIGHT NOW! It just means the two of you aren't right for *each other*.
What he did sounds MUCH more about him than about you. I know it's not easy to lose someone you care about, but better at 4 months than further down the road.
Sheri