3 yr anniversary this Fri.
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3 yr anniversary this Fri.
| Mon, 07-26-2004 - 10:44am |
I wanted to get some comments or suggestions from people here on the list who had ot deal with similar situations in the past. Me and my ex broke up back in mid April, a little over 3 months ago, after a 2 1/2 yr relationship. She's already moved on and is dating someone else now. Because of that, we hardly talk and I find no reason to keep in touch with her. The only time I see her is if we coincidentally run into each other at some of the same clubs/bars we tend to frequent. She's usually there with her new bf and that really hurts me to see that. Anyway she happened to call me this past saturday afternoon. We talked for about an hour and she started to get all emotional on the phone and started crying. She found out last wknd thru mutual friends that I'm now dating some girls and I have a feeling that was why she called. Prior to this wknd I had not spoken to her since the first part of June. But it was weird, the she was kind of contradictory in the conversation. The first part of the conversation she was crying and emotional and I felt like maybe she was trying to hang on to me or that she was maybe still holding on to jope that we might get back togther even though she was the one who broke up with me to be with another guy. And then the last half of the conversation she was talking about moving on and how we weren't meant to be. So I have two questions for you all on the list. (1) What was her motivation to call and why was she getting emotional and crying (2) What would have been our 3 yr anniversary is approaching this Friday. How do I handle that day? Do I call her or send her an email to acknowledge it or just ignore it and treat it like any other day? TIA.
