4 mos. pregnant bf left

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Registered: 04-05-2005
4 mos. pregnant bf left
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Wed, 06-15-2005 - 1:16pm

Well it is official he is now trying to numb and run from his responsibilities to me and this baby. He is dating someone new. I have been with my ex for 9 yrs. way too long, should've left him days ago but didn't. Anyway 2 mos. ago I told him I was pregnant, it has been a rollercoaster ride from hell to say the least. Well I hacked my way into his email and found out he is planning on moving to the city where his new gf resides. My heart is breaking, I am already hormonal and now I have to deal with trying to have a baby and get over him at the same time. It is so painful because he is literally growing inside me. Last nite he called me yelling about how could I e-mail her? I did e-mail the OW to warn her about all his lies, telling her he hasn't been single for a year, told her we were together Memorial Day weekend, making love everything was fine. Well she writes me back and tells me she is really attracted to him and wants to have sex with him regularly and wants frienship and intimacy only. I wanted to kick her ******* a$$!!! Excuse me you B****? I guess I deserve it for contacting her in the first place, still doesn't mean it doesn't hurt like he**. Some minutes I am strong thinking screw him, he doesn't deserve me or this baby, then I want to puke with the idea of him making love to her like he did me. He kept telling me these are the consequences I have to deal with for having this baby and not having an abortion. Deal with it!!! I am literally waiting to wake up from this nightmare.


Tina


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Registered: 02-01-2005
Wed, 06-15-2005 - 4:43pm
Um, yeah, what a jerk. Make sure you investigate all your legal recources and milk that running fool for all he's worth. I'm sorry, but pieces of crap like this guy make me SO angry.
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Mon, 06-20-2005 - 11:48am
Honey, I'm so sorry you're having to go through this!!!
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Registered: 06-02-2005
Mon, 07-04-2005 - 12:20pm

Hi,

Well, when you take a percentage of his pay check for child support, it will serve him right for walking out on you!

~LisaL