4.5 years and then nothing....
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4.5 years and then nothing....
| Tue, 05-09-2006 - 5:35pm |
Ok, so my Boyfriend of 4.5 years broke up with me 2 weeks ago. He loves me I know this, but he is trying to figure out what he wants to do with his life. At first I kept calling him and trying to get him to change his mind, but last Thursday I realized that I can't change his mind, only he can do that. He said that if he changes his mind he will let me know and we are supposed to keep in touch but I'm not calling him, I'm going to let him call me. I know that he needs his space right now, because he is going through some stuff. I also know he loves me and trust me I love him. I am respecting his decision, but it has been hard. I just am keeping myself busy and I'm not thinking about him. My question I guess is do you think he and I will ever be able to regain a romantic relationship?

hi manno
thats a good decision stop calling him and contacting him coz you will scared him more. well guys are like that the only way for them to know are importants if we are not around them anymore.
about your question if ever you guys will be able to regain a romantic relationship? the person could answer to this question is ONLY you...coz nobody could ever feel the real feeling of your ex. ask yourself and be honest.
you guys been dating for 4.5 within this years he never figure out what he wants....ARE YOU KIDDING ME? AFTER THOSE YEARS HE NEVER KNEW WHAT HE WANTS. WELL ACTUALLY SOMETIME IF YOU GUYS BEEN DATING FOR QUITE A WHILE FOR SOME REASON YOU GET TIRED OF THAT PERSON AND WE LOOK FOR SOME ONE WITH CHALLEGING RELATIONSHIP. JUST LIKE MY FRIEND SHES A FEMALE SHE BEEN MARRIED WITH THIS GUY FOR 10YRS. SOMEHOW SHE TOLD ME SHE GET TIRED OF IT AND GET BORED. ACTUALLY THE HUSBAND IS ALMOST PERFECT..BUT STILL SHE GOT BORED. CRAZY RIGHT? AND SOMEHOW SHE START DATING SOMEONE AND NOW I THINK THE GUY PLAY HARD TO GET. BUT WITH ALL THOSE DRAMA WITH THE NEW GUY SHE STILL LOVE HIM MORE THAN HER HUSBAND.
SO AT THIS POINT RESPECT HIS DESICION...DONT MAKE THINGS COMPLICATED COZ YOU MIGHT SEND HIM AWAY MORE. ALSO THIS IS THE ONLY WAY FOR HIM TO FIGURE OUT YOUR REAL VALUE/IMPORTANT FOR HIM.