5th mo breakup anni, 2mo NC & he calls

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Registered: 10-18-2006
5th mo breakup anni, 2mo NC & he calls
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Mon, 02-11-2008 - 11:07pm

Just sharing and venting (and kinda long)!


Today is my 5th month breakup anniversary with 2 months mostly NC (he still will IM or call with different numbers--I have various phone lines so he'll use that).

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Registered: 07-07-2007
Mon, 02-11-2008 - 11:42pm

Hi Pinky,


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Registered: 08-22-2003
Mon, 02-11-2008 - 11:43pm

pinky, you give such good advice to people on here, i wanted to just let you know I'm sorry to hear this. I know how tough it is.

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Registered: 08-22-2003
Mon, 02-11-2008 - 11:47pm
i'm sorry to butt in and if this sounds mean, please by all means tell me. but, you broke up with him, then he courted you back for awhile. you didnt' take him back and now hes with someone else. I think he knew what he wanted, but figured you didnt' want him. So he moved on.
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Registered: 10-18-2006
Tue, 02-12-2008 - 12:16am

Hey Surfergirl!


I hope you're feeling better...I know you've had an emotional time lately.

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Registered: 10-18-2006
Tue, 02-12-2008 - 12:33am

Hey Bunni!


You're right some men have no clue what they want and at times use you as collateral damage while they try to figure it.

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Registered: 09-28-2007
Tue, 02-12-2008 - 1:24am

the annoying contact from an x is the worst. i'm glad you see it as something negative.


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Registered: 06-09-2004
Fri, 02-15-2008 - 5:40am

Please do not look at his IMs. Block his email addresses, all of them. My ex dumped 4 months ago, after dating for 4 years, w/him buying engagement ring and all. I only became stronger when I REALLY could do NC, which meant NC from him either. Try it for a week or 2 and see if you feel better.


I do something childish...I take the stairs at work, only 2 flights, but w/ each step in the morning I feel as if I am stepping on my feelings, hurts, relationship, everything about him. When I leave & walk down those steps, I do not even think of him. I have the day on my mind, or other things.

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