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| Thu, 05-10-2007 - 11:03am |
Hi there,
I think I am about to break up. I'm a bit all over the place at the moment.
I've had an uneasy feeling for the last while, and last week was told a bare faced lie that I could actually prove...at the time I told myself there was a reason for it but after a few days of thinking, things are just not falling into place.
So I guess he is cheating on me.
I haven't been going out with this guy for long but I have been friends with him for 3 years & we knew an awful lot of stuff about each other before we got together.
I guess that made it pretty special, I trusted him more than a guy I just met.
So now I'm all over the place, my head is racing all the time wondering if when he said he was here or there was he really somewhere else. I am alternating from wanting to cry to wanting to throw up, to being really angry, then sad, then n=i dont believe it, then just in total shock...like i can't understand why he would do that ...we were friends we had a solid background...I mean why would you bother with such an intricate set of lies anyhow...but why not just tell me it wasn't working..thats what hurts so much
ok so what i really want to know is how to minimise the pain & get over him fast!!!..see i still got a sense of humour, can't be too bad!
any tips would be extremely welcome...

Hi azur2003 and welcome to the board,
Everything you feel is normal.