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| Sun, 01-14-2007 - 4:36pm |
1. Who ended it? I did
2. Why?- Read my Should I Return his Call post for details
3. When? December 13th I ended it did not break daily contact or stop acting like a couple til December 29th.
4. How are you coping? My going back to dance class, spending more time with my kids, seeing my grilfriends, cleanning my house, my job, anything. My goal is to go the bed burned out every night.
5. How are you REALLY doing- On a scale of 1 to 10 a 5. I don't think of him as my first waking thought. I can resist answering his calls and emails for several days at a time, but it is hard. There is still a lot of love there.
6. Seen him since? -Once at the bank, drove away fast
7. Good break-up songs that actaully help- Since You've Been Gone by Kelly Clarkson
Say Goodby-by Chris Brown
8. Is it REALLY over?- Not sure
9. How Long Do you think it will be until you date again?- A friend asked me out. I told him give me a few weeks and we could have lunch.
10. Be Honest any Senes of Relief?- Yes at times

For those trying to follow your story:
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rlbreaking/?msg=21858.1
Carrie
1. Who ended it? I stopped contact. He had told me for months that he would want to date other people if the opportunity presented itself, and it did.
2. Why?- See above. He couldn't commit to me and probably can't commit to anyone as a result of a nasty divorce.
3. When? Our last contact was November 27th
4. How are you coping? Re-connecting with my friends and family. Going out, having fun, doing things for myself!
5. How are you REALLY doing- 7. I have good and bad days. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think about him and wonder if he will ever call but the thoughts are becoming less frequent.
6. Seen him since? - No and I avoid going to his side of town for that reason.
7. Good break-up songs that actaully help- Irreplaceable by Beyonce, Out of Reach by Gabrielle (sad but exemplifies how I feel) and No One's Gonna Change You by Reina
8. Is it REALLY over?- YES!!
9. How Long Do you think it will be until you date again?- I have already started dating. Nothing serious yet.
10. Be Honest any Senes of Relief?- Sense of relief in not wondering his true feelings about me and when and if he is going to call me.